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Unlike climbing Mount Everest or going on a round-the-world trip, having children creates another human being whose happiness needs to be taken into account. Just as some people who think they wanted kids regret having them. Bottom line: Unless someone is completely sure they want to be a parent, and are fully ready to accept the responsibilities it entails, I say us pushy parents should stop trying to convince them otherwise.
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Many people do the job and do it well, but parenthood is difficult and doing it alone can be a significant hardship. For my own part, I wanted to become a parent and was well prepared for parenthood. What I was not prepared for was being widowed at a young age, having a daughter with severe cardiac and Free sex partner Hospitalet de llobregat significant health issues that will keep her largely dependent on me for the rest of her life.
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There are so many unknowns that the taking on the responsibility of another life should never be entered into lightly or without significant planning.
I see them everyday in my office. Children deserve good, well prepared, finacially stable parents and a healthy childhood.
I have heard many parents say they did the best they could and their children turned out just fine, but my experience as a therapist does not show this to be true.
Would some people be happy to have kids? Maybe but are they unhappy now?
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Maybe they would be happy to get a boob job or donate a kidney to a stranger or invest their money in the stock market. Some topics are just none of my business. A great many of the comments posted by proponents Blonde in dark land Clarksville Tennessee both choices come across as very defensive, as if despite their aggressive posturing, they froendship some degree of doubt, apparently the only way they can feel secure about their decision is to convince someone else to mimic them.
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I will start with the definition of respect. Some people have chosen to be childfree; some people have chosen to be not childfree. Actually, your whole comment shows a total lack of respect for the childfree.
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Therefore, you have shown a total lack of respect, or complete disrespect, for us.
Carol wrote: You used the single quotes to indicate scorn, sarcasm, or irony of what we, the childfree, know contributes to our happiness. You do not know us as well as we know ourselves. As such, your statement is incorrect.
I advise you to be direct in your writing and not use scare quotes. If you choose to respond to this comment, please clearly write what you meant to convey to us in that sentence.
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